Category: Becoming

  • Bloom for real

    Bloom for real

    I planted silk flowers in my garden  in my quest for beauty. They don’t fool anyone for long.  They look garish and cheap even when the  sun shines. When I make a show and water  their plastic roots with  my polkadot watering can they are still dead. It’s not real beauty. Counterfeit beauty is an…

  • Hope made a way

    Hope made a way

    The pieces don’t fit.  I want to finish this puzzle so that  it makes sense.  It’s a mess and there are  pieces missing so I am not sure why I keep going.  I am losing hope that I will ever see the complete picture. I am missing pieces.  I am not where I  thought I…

  • Is there evidence?

    Is there evidence?

    Dappled light highlights the shapes made by the peeling bark on the crepe myrtle trees. I go for a closer look. I am enamored  by the light,  by the tree. Its cracking,  its peeling. I’m in awe of  the metamorphosis  of such a large specimen. This is how it grows. Crepe myrtles  shed last year’s…

  • Created to…

    Created to…

    Leap Shuffle Saunter Crawl towards your purpose passion and possibilities. We were created to  Grow Change Shift Learn. Be who you are,  right where you are but don’t stay there.  #PermissionGranted

  • Feel the weight

    Feel the weight

      I stood here in this   spot on the porch   and I had a lot   going on in my   heart and mind.   I know you can’t   tell from the picture…   but just trust me on this one.   I looked at the picture   that I made,  …

  • We have permission to:

    We have permission to:

    Dear fellow white humans we have permission to: mourn learn grow feel unlearn research read listen share reflect hope discuss stand speak listen serve support.  

  • A manifesto on being

    A manifesto on being

    Dial it back Cuddle up Keep it simple Make it special Listen Learn Understand Rest Create Take up your space Feel what you feel Don’t dwell there Hold hope Cling to truth Let go of what you can’t hold. Be safe Pray Strengthen roots Extend grace Be present Grow Give Be who you are Right…

  • Sown in the Unknown

    Sown in the Unknown

    Somehow, someway,  something grew.  I don’t remember  planting, watering  or fertilizing the fruit I am holding. At some point something  found good soil,  put down roots, grew green shoots,  blossomed and now I have fruit. I am astounded  to be holding fruit. When did this germinate? I trace back the  origin of the gift  of…

  • A lesson from anoles

    A lesson from anoles

    The flat, preserved anoles in my sister’s door frame make me a little sad. Why didn’t you move, little lizards? Maybe you had hung out in the door frame before and you thought you were safe. Perhaps you didn’t recognize the danger in delay. Maybe you were comfortable. You clearly were with friends so maybe…

  • Worthy work

    Worthy work

    This being who you are – who you are meant to be – is not an easy road to walk. And sometimes I think it is supposed to be. And that’s a lie. I believe it is worth the fight. It’s worth wading through the lies, the pain, the grief, the strife and anger to…