Category: Community

  • Feel the weight

    Feel the weight

      I stood here in this   spot on the porch   and I had a lot   going on in my   heart and mind.   I know you can’t   tell from the picture…   but just trust me on this one.   I looked at the picture   that I made,  …

  • We have permission to:

    We have permission to:

    Dear fellow white humans we have permission to: mourn learn grow feel unlearn research read listen share reflect hope discuss stand speak listen serve support.  

  • See my boy

    See my boy

    Sweet, little toes. Precious nose.  Chubby cheeks.  First steps. Belly laughs. ABCs and 123s. Strong legs run fast. Make-me-laugh antics. Off to kindergarten. Discovers Spiderman. Makes new friends wherever he goes.  He loves any and every kind of sport that includes a ball. (Black boys only play basketball and football.) He graduates to middle school…

  • You’re never far

    You’re never far

    We might be five miles apart,  next door, or 2500 miles away from each other.  But you’re never far.  Distance can’t change  what the heart holds.  Distance can’t dilute  our determination  to care for one  another well.  We will find a way. Distance cannot weaken love. It just doesn’t  have that kind of power. Distance…

  • Not alone

    Not alone

    You’re not alone. You’re not alone. And if you are convinced you are – I’m there, too. I may feel raw, unseen, and unsteady. But friend, I am not alone. You are weak from bracing against the assault of the relentless wind but I need you to shift your gaze. Look up. Look up. I’m…

  • In the wrong

    In the wrong

    The greatest gift we can give someone is inviting them to be fully themselves with us and then cheering them on as they pursue all they are meant for. We don’t all receive this gift.  And this is why: We withhold permission from  others to step  into all that they are made for because it…

  • Upon closer inspection

    Upon closer inspection

    If you look at my calendar you would think it is a mess. The same could be said for my car, the basement, my desktop, and the laundry room. My hope is that upon closer inspection, you might be able to look past the insanity, the yogurt splashes, the boxes, the piles of shoes –…

  • The song of humanity.

    The song of humanity.

    The trees, the dolphins, and the mountains call to me and demand to be seen. I can’t look away. The bird’s song, the breeze, tickling the trees, the way a flower grows from a teeny seed. I can’t look away. I see their creator in them. His design, his joy, his creativity is in the…

  • Be the right person

    Be the right person

    I was recently the recipient  of community in action.  I had questions about trying something new  and after a few phone calls, too many not-quite-right Youtube videos and  articles I found  the right person. She patiently listened to my questions, filled in my gaps,  and then went the extra mile to help me get over…

  • Be loud.

    Be loud.

    A friend shared that there are voices in her life that are discouraging.  She told me that my voice is an encouragement to her. I kind of jokingly said,  “I will keep being loud!” And she replied, “Yes. Be loud.” Who needs you to Be Loud? Someone does. Or a group of people do. And…